The Cyber-Bullying Is In The Comments
To be cyber-stalked by a long-established bully, one who partook of their target's trauma, is to deal with a fear that seems illogical to others, save for those who've been bullied-- the fear of being singled out, harassed, and gaslit in forums and support groups. Any online presence the target has is fair game in the eyes of the bully, and interference could occur at any given moment, arousing paranoia in the target and concerns that they aren't safe to share any part of themselves in cyberspace, be it arts forums, discussion or support groups, even book reviews and online poetry contests.
Therefore, it is necessary to post screenshots as evidence that this ongoing problem actually exists, in order for the problem to be dealt with, freed up from gaslighting, and purged from the forefront of my psyche. There can be no mistake that for 9 years, I been running from someone with malicious intent. There's nowhere and no reason to run from her anymore, I've healed enough to be able to deal with this abusive person's attempts to stir up my trauma. Heather has desensitized my trauma button with her constant manipulations and unwanted rubbings-- it's no longer swollen and pulsating, painfully aroused by her abuses.
This particular blog post functions as a point of reference for any third party who's sent to me by Heather-- whether they are a flying monkey or part of a triangulation.
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| "I am sincerely happy that at least you have reconnected with your brother" --what does this statement mean? My brother has been incarcerated, 15 years into a life sentence. |
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Heather just needed David and/or myself to just sit down and tell her to stop drudging up our trauma and to stop spying and meddling? The message below is the 8th attempt to establish a boundary: |
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| (Note: "Keturah" was my Hebrew name.) David and I wrote to Heather many times asking her to stop bringing up our trauma. We consistently erected boundaries, had them crossed to the point of needing to cut off contact altogether. |
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The begrudging, accusatory undertones of Heather's apology (for cyber-bullying me on a poetry forum, I'm guessing?) are Narcissistic in nature, meant to cause more hurt, while distancing herself from her own damaging actions. |
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Heather's always searching for me, and in 2017, found my comments on an article written about disabled communities. She has been preoccupied with gaslighting me on the subject of my isolation, poverty, disabilities and feelings of inadequacy and loneliness. But her gaslighting won't work with this particular thing, seeing as though I live with and receive medical treatment for chronic illness and disability on a daily basis. |
The comments:
From someone who contacted me with insights into the above comments:
There it all is.
Concluding this post is a video about Gaslighting:
